Creating True Success from the Inside Out with Dr Hitendra Wadhwa [Episode #809]
This weekās topic is: Creating True Success from the Inside Out with Dr Hitendra Wadhwa
I am so excited to have my very special guest, Dr. Hitendra Wadhwa, who is a professor at Columbia Business School, Founder of the Mentora Leadership Institute, and author of the book INNER MASTERY, OUTER IMPACT: How Your Five Core Energies Hold the Key to Success. Listen in as Dr. Hitendra shares how the 5 core energies play out in daily life, tools to master strong emotions, finding wisdom in our modern world, and so much more!
- 5 Core Energies and how they play out in daily lifeā¦
- How real success in life and business is related to emotional masteryā¦
- Tools to master strong emotions and bring calm into your daily lifeā¦
- Triggers and the 3 metrics to keep in mindā¦
- Awareness and what it means to tune back inā¦
- Finding wisdom in the modern dayā¦

About Dr. Hitendra Wadhwa
Hitendra Wadhwa PhD is a professor at Columbia Business School and Founder of the Mentora Institute. He has coached dozens of Fortune 100 C-suite executives and taught 10,000+ MBAs and Executives. His class on Personal Leadership & Success is one of the most popular at Columbia Business School, for which he has won the Deanās Award for Teaching Excellence. Hitendraās mission is to discover, codify and teach the laws of success in life and leadership. His research integrates the latest science of human nature, ancient wisdom, studies of great leaders, and the personal journeys of everyday heroes.
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Kimberly: 00:00 Namaste loves and welcome back to our Monday interview show where I am so excited to share a very special guest with you today. His name is Dr. Hitendra Wadhwa and he is a professor at Columbia Business School. He has taught thousands of MBAs. In fact, it says here over 10,000 MBAs. He has one of the most popular classes of all time at Columbia Business School for which he has won the Deanās Award for Teaching Excellence. He has also founded the Mentor Leadership Institute and he has a new book out called Inner Mastery Outer Impact, how your five core Energies Hold the Key to Success. I originally know, knew of Dr. Hitendra Wadhwa from the documentary awake, which is on the life of Paramahansa Yogananda, the great yoga guru. And in it they feature many people that have followed his teachings including a clip of, you know, Steve Jobs and his funeral where Steve Jobs gave out Yoganandaās book or had his book given out to the hundreds of people that attended as his last message to the world.
Kimberly:01:16 And Dr. Hitendra Wadhwa was also part of that documentary and explaining the impact that Yogananda had on his life. And so, um, my latest book, you Are More Than You Think You Are, is based on Yoganandaās teachings as well for modern life. And when I started to read Dr. Hitendra Wadhwaās incredibly thought out Wise book, I could see his references to Yogananda and that we share this similar path and we both practice Creo Yoga and I just resonated with it so much. So just like everything, I like to bring forward here on our Feel Good podcast, when something really resonates with me, when something feels really important to share, Iām so honored to share it and I really think youāll love our conversation today with the Wise. Dr. Hitendra Wadhwa.
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Kimberly: 04:19 One of them is joining our mailing list cuz we mail out fresh recipes, we mail out happenings and articles, new blogs, and also we have a 30 minute monthly zoom. So wanna make sure that youāre aware of this in case youāre interested in joining us. Itās really wonderful. Itās every second Wednesday of the month at 9:30 AM Pacific time. And itās, you know, accessible and free for anyone that subscribes to any of our Solluna products. So when you subscribe, youāll get an email to sign into the Zoom, the community zoom the week prior. And the Zoom features a brief meditation and then I open it up for live Q&A. And also I cover different teachings thatās relevant for that month in particular around our four cornerstones. So if you havenāt joined us yet, please come join us. Weād love to have you. Weād love to see you. Iād love to connect with you further. Okay, all of that being said, letās get into our conversation today with the wonderful Dr. Hitendra.
Interview with Dr. Hitendra Wadhwa
Kimberly: 00:01:29 Dr. Hitendra, thank you so much for joining us. I am so excited to talk about your philosophy and your new book, inner Mastery Outer Impact, which, um, as weāll get into in a moment, had a big, uh, impact on me personally.
Dr. Hitendra: 00:01:57 Wow. No, thank you. Iām so touched to hear that, uh, Kimberly, and much looking forward to our conversation and yeah, just like cross fertilizing our ideas. I know youāre on such a similar and kindred path.
Kimberly: 00:02:09 Yeah. So I have to say, first, your, your book came across my desk. I think your publisher sent it to me, and I thought, Hmm, this name sounds familiar. And I started to look into it because I had actually seen you in the documentary Wake, and I had read some of the articles that you had written for the Self Realization Magazine. And I donāt know if you know this, um, Dr. Hera, but I actually wrote a recent book on the teachings of Yogananda for Modern Life. And so that came out, the, the paperback came out last year with Hay House, but this is all about, um, the teachings of Yogananda and self realization, and about the true self. And so then your book came and I thought, oh my gosh, this is someone on a similar path. We, you know, for those of us listening that, um, arenāt familiar, Yogananda teaches, uh, crea Yoga, which is a type of yoga based in the spine.
00:03:05 And it has changed my life radically. Iāve talked about it a lot on here about just waking up creativity. Itās when I started writing books, doctor, and really just opening up everything. And then I started to read your book. And of course, you teach at Columbia, you teach an m b A leadership course, youāve been involved in many tech companies, and you know, in, in business, youāve brought these yogic teachings in such a profound, practical way. So when I was starting to read your book, and I, I donāt know if anyone has said this to you, but I literally cried at many places because I could feel the depth of wisdom that youāre bringing this wisdom, these teachings into business, into modern life where itās so needed. So it really, from the bottom of my heart, thank you for sharing, um, this incredible book with us.
Dr. Hitendra: 00:04:00 You and I share a common affection and regard and awe right, uh, for Yogananda. And that is so beautiful to hear congratulations on your journey and on your book. And, um, I applaud you for that. I applaud you for that. Um, you know, he has been, um, you know, the most formative, the most formative influence on my life from, um, a very young age. And, um, I owe so much to the clarity with which he was able to dust off the shelf these timeless teachings, you know, that are there in almost like every great scripture, the, the wisdom of the mystics, uh, put a practical wrapper around it and a path around it, and put in modern English that, you know, I can understand and you can understand
Kimberly: 00:05:00 Well, thank you again so much. And again, this, um, this wisdom really lives through in, in your book, and youāve mixed a lot of practical teachings with business and many stories around, you know, Abraham Lincoln and, um, Malcolm X and many figures with the, with these teachings to make the teachings really applicable and easy to understand. So, can you tell us a little bit, um, Dr. Hira, about your core energies, the five core energy, the, the subtitle of the book is How your Five Core Energies Hold the Key to Success. And one of the, um, parts of the book that really, uh, resonated with, with me upfront is when you talked about if thereās struggle, if weāre in conflict, if weāre struggling in our relationships, in our business and in our success, itās because weāre not in touch with these core energies. So maybe you could speak a little bit about what they are and how they, you know, how they play out in, in daily life.
5 Core Energies and how they play out in daily life
Dr. Hitendra: 00:05:57 Yeah, no, thank you, um, for asking. Thatās very much at the very center of, um, the work that Iāve been doing over the last 15 odd years to, you know, bring both, uh, timeless but also very timely kind of, you know, structure and look to, um, how we can pursue happiness and high performance at the same time, you know, harmony in relationships and health as well. And, um, the general emphasis, you know, for us in the West in particular tends to be, you know, a very physical one, you know, which is about how am I behaving? What am I saying? What is the other person saying, you know, how are they behaving? What are they doing? What am I doing? And that, um, assumes that basically all that is real and important is what you can visibly see through the sensors on the surface. And this notion of energies, uh, invites us to actually, you know, take, um, pause and recognize that there is a lot to our shared reality in a relationship and an interaction in team and organization in a nation, you know, in humanity that is coming from more an exchange of energy, an activation of energy from within.
00:07:07 And these energies are fluid. They can change direction, they can intensify, they can be brought down, they can be shared and mixed, and, um, you know, they can be also rejuvenated. You know, you, you can, you can be depleter of energy, but you can, you know, get it back as well. And so once you start to see yourself and see others and see your pursuit, you know, of your goals, also that lens of energy, it just sort of opens up a much more broader aperture mm-hmm.
00:07:49 And I, I, I left just feeling whatever uplifted, you know, or, or, or really suspicious now, or, or, or, or whatever it might be,
00:08:45 And, and in some ways that relates to four of these five energies, you know, mind is wisdom, body is purpose, you know, the doing heart is love. And then spirit is kind of like self realization. And, and the fifth energy that Iāve added, you know, in the middle of these four is growth. The idea that we can be seeing ourselves in others as ever expanding in our consciousness. Mm-hmm. Ever striving to, you know, walk up the mountaintop, you know, to, to the peak potential. You know, that we might at some point discover in ourselves, and itās a journey, and we are all, you know, in our own ways, making our own journey perhaps on our own paths. And, and so thatās the growth energy. But it really, for me, you know, at some level, the motivation came from what I learned through Yogananda to be the four major paths of yoga.
00:09:29 You know, thereās Yes. Which is purpose. And then yeah, then as you know, you know, Ian yoga, which is wisdom, and then
Kimberly: 00:10:17 Yes.
Dr. Hitendra: 00:10:17 But you have to be very caring and connected and patient and empathetic, and thatās the love energy. And you donāt have to give up one for the other. You can mix and match them
Kimberly: 00:10:27 Know? Yes. Work with the energies.
How real success in life and business is related to emotional mastery
Dr. Hitendra: 00:11:36 Yeah. Iām glad youāre picking that up, because it is such a missed opportunity, and yet one which is so, so within grasp, you know, of any or all of us, um, you know, you have some of us who have chosen to operate with the assumption that emotions just donāt matter, you know? And some of those individuals to me are not in fact denying ultimately in their conduct the impact that emotions can have. They are just, um, ignoring it. They are suppressing it. You know, they are telling themselves that they are somehow larger than their emotions, and not necessarily acknowledging that a particular response or an action they took, or a decision they made, or the tone of voice they viewed actually came from a very triggered place, you know, from a very emotional place. They just say like, emotions donāt matter. Iām thinking, what with my mind?
00:12:25 And then you have others for whom emotions matter a lot, but then they sometimes get very entrapped and quashed in those emotions and seeking to validate, you know, them for themselves and seeking to expect, you know, affirmation about the emotions from others. And, and it can be constructive at times, but also disruptive at times. And so the quest for emotional mastery begins when you first just make sure, sure, that you are aware of the inner life, not just the outer life. And the inner life means that from time to time, we will experience a certain thought or a certain emotion that we become aware of it. Let me start to pay attention to it. Maybe give it a label. Like, you know, I think Iām not frustrated, but I am kind of really, really unhappy with this person, you know? And so being able to kind of label what exactly is that feeling that youāre feeling?
00:13:18 Maybe itās a mix of feelings. A part of me is feeling relieved, and a part of me is feeling worried at the same time, I didnāt get that project. Iām relieved ācause I donāt have to work on it. But Iām also feeling a little apprehensive and worried that why did I not get it? You know, I, I should have gotten that project. Um, and so being able to label your emotions, being able to quantify them on at the minimum, a high, medium, low, you know, level, like, you know, is this emotion being felt at a high or a medium or a low. And anytime itās being experienced at a high level today, there is science to share that those emotions start to unconsciously, if not consciously drive our thinking and drive our conduct. Mm-hmm. Oftentimes in ways that distort our thinking. Yeah. And that because act and say things that we may regret later, uh, or that donāt rub other people the right way.
00:14:05 If there are negative emotions, like, you know, being frustrated or being angry or being, you know, hyper anxious or being, you know, super upset and depressed or hopeless, you know, at some point people around you donāt see positive energy coming from you. Youāre a net, you know, extract of energy, you know, rather than a generator of energy, you know, in the team. Um, and so, uh, so both in terms of distorting our thinking, landing in ways that donāt always, you know, um, make people feel good, um, and leaving a certain kind of, you know, energy mark there in the room. Those are all the ways in which, um, you know, lack of awareness and regulation of our emotional life can, you know, hurt us in, in, in the workplace or, or in relationships in general. And so, and so what we know today from the science of emotional mastery, which a lot of it for me, was something that I learned by, you know, really, really grateful to Dr.
00:15:00 David Burns, you know, the, uh, preeminent exponent of cognitive behavior therapy. Um, and so what Iāve learned from studying, you know, discipline like that with him and or a mindfulness based therapy and, you know, some of the neuroscience of, of, uh, you know, the wiring of the brain and, um, other very innovative forms of psychotherapy, like, for example, Dr. Dan Siegel from U C L A
00:15:53 Mm-hmm. They can be regulated. And there are these methods through which we can either with changing a behavior, you know, change the emotional state, such as doing deep breathing, or taking a pause and taking a walk, or just, you know, making ourselves, you know, go up to the mirror and just smile warmly. So thereās certain behaviors we can use, then there are certain ways we can regulate and change our thoughts. Um, and then of course, there are these mindfulness based practices of just learning to sit in stillness and pull our energy and our consciousness away from my emotions, more towards the stillness and serenity that we all have access to at the very core of our being, you know, at the place where a pure spirit resides. And, and so any of, all o
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